Online Dating

During my years as a single man and being involved in countless dating situations and being an observer among friends and aquaintences that have been through the dating gambit, authors and even friends seem to have their own “advice”.

Since the courtship or dating process mostly involves men doing the pursuing, men have to come up with their own methods in their approaches to winning a woman over, even if these single ladies are a complete stranger, which can be most awkward
There’s books about “How to approach women”, at least that’s the jist of it, there’s all those “How to get women to sleep with you” books, also.

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It’s All In The Approach?

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I don’t know if anyone has heard of this guy, but I think he’s got every single lady in Florida hating about now.

He basically paid a membership fee for a social group called “Events and Adventures” he filed a lawsuit against this company for having fat chicks in it. Yep, that’s right Fat chicks.

And it’s NOT even a dating service…just a social group that can go out somewhere, be it skydiving, dancing, movies, etc, he just didn’t like the fact that fat chicks were in the group…so what does the numnut do? He sues them.

Go ahead and read this article from the Orlando Weekly entitled:

NO FAT CHICKS
Ladies of Orlando: You are not up to Kurt Spath’s high standards, so he’s suing 

He stirred up some of the hate from the Orlando population on that article too from all the “Blog Comments”.

This guy is one of those people that refer to him as a “weasel”.

Just read the article and enjoy! It’s a trip!

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Okay, I would like to share criticisms about Plenty of Fish.com’s forums…the site itself for seeking mates is okay, I think it’s as good as any other site, the benefit is that it is free…but the message boards is patrolled my power hungry forum moderators who are ban happy with anyone who disagrees with them, and quick to delete ANY thread that they deem unsuitable to post.

They have this long, convoluted set of rules they expect you to read through (obviously nothing simple, and looks like it was pieced together through periods of time).

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Plentyoffish.com Forums Banning, Deleting, and Supsending Accounts

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Google this topic and you’ll come up with TONS and TONS of info on this.  I decided to go with Wikipedia on this one. But I figured I’d better write about it as well, give my “variant” so here goes….
My dad, being as old-school as he is….having been married for over 35 years says to me, “Son, you’re better off not even getting married these days!” He’ll follow it up with, “Well, if you meet the right girl, but that’s hard now.”  I suppose he was trying to be nice, and give me an inkling of hope.

Now, things are getting bleak when someone who is a traditional man sees the “End Times” when it comes to marriage to deceptive and manipulative women.

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The Marriage Strike And THEN Some!

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There could be alot written on this topic, sometimes I wouldn’t know where to begin, but I’ll begin SOMEWHERE, right?  Anyway, sometimes there can be difficulties in dating single parents.

In my case, being a male bachelor, I have to concern myself with dating single mothers.  Now , one can be on the fence about this, or just not date single parents at all.

But there are things to consider when doing this.

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Dating Single Parents

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There’s this book out called Bowling Alone 

I hadn’t read it yet, but I did read the synopsis and also talked to people that had read it.   And to be honest, it hits “right on” with alot of things about people these days. This not only is true in the dating world, but also in any kind of relationship, friendship, and the like.
Putnam, the author of Bowling Alone states, “In a nutshell, he argued that civil society was breaking down as Americans became more disconnected from their families, neighbors, communities, and the republic itself.” 

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Bowling Alone A Blog Review about Social Capital

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I have noticed this to be a common place with alot of people. Quite frankly, I think it promotes selfishness and loose morals, but that’s their choice to be that way. The main reason that this is becoming more common, that friends with benefits a way to “Have their cake and eat it too”, I’m sorry, but most of the time, this can’t be done nor can be expected.

Sure, it might start off fine, but then one person will eventually get emotional, want to take the relationship to the serious level, and something’s got to give.

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The Deal With Friends with Benefits, Should It Be Done?

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As anyone knows, with ONLINE dating, there are MANY hurdles and objectives you must achieve even BEFORE the actual face-to-face meeting. I am not going to give advice or tips on how to get someone interested in you, just stating the obvious.
Let’s start:

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Online Dating Objectives

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